the neighbor did not want us to use his name. he said that the two appeared to have been getting along very, very well. they had a baby just three months ago, born on september 11th. they were both proud parents, very happy by all outward appearances. the neighbor tells us that he heard no fighting overnight. he was up at the time of the shooting, when the girlfriend was shot. he said he heard noises, didn't immediately identify them as gunshots because it's not something they hear in that neighborhood. it's a very nice, upper middle class type neighborhood. he said that he then looked outside and saw jovan outside of his front door pacing back and forth talking to himself. he then got in his car and drove away and apparently drove here to the chiefs training facility where he shot and killed himself just a little while later. >> so it sounds like they had a pretty good relationship and hadn't turned violent before. we know that he spoke with his coaches before he shot himself. do we know what they talked about? >> reporter: we d